Cary was born August 30, 1962 in St. Joe, Michigan. He went to Lakeshore High School where he played many sports including basketball, baseball, and football. He graduated from Lakeshore High School in 1980 and went on to play baseball at Lake Michigan College and Grand Valley State University in Michigan.
He completed a CAD degree from Denver Technical Institute and worked as a sales manager in the asphalt and concrete paving industry.
He was married in 1993 to Kerry Bahrenburg and they had two children: Kane and Cassi; along with many dogs and motorcycles. They have lived as a family in Colorado since 1992.
He is survived by his wife and children along with his parents Wayne and Juanita Coleman of Littleton, his brother Ryan Coleman of Denver, and many friends that he held close to his heart.
The family suggests contributions to Denver Hospice in lieu of flowers.