Gary D. Lupien

Gary D. Lupien, a dedicated and hardworking soul, passed away peacefully on December 6, 2025, in Westminster, Colorado, at the age of 78. Born on September 22, 1947, in Altona, Manitoba, Canada, Gary's journey through life was as colorful as the nature photographs he cherished capturing.

A proud veteran, Gary joined the Marine Corps at the tender age of 16, serving his nation during the Vietnam War as a helicopter mechanic. His commitment to service not only shaped him as a man but also sowed the seeds of a generosity that would define him. Though at times grumpy and gruff, Gary’s heart held an abundance of compassion for those who crossed his path.

While Gary never had a family of his own, he found a warm embrace in an adopted family that quickly became integral to his life. Sundays were cherished moments filled with laughter, love, and food as they gathered for dinner, sharing stories and creating lasting memories. One of the brightest lights in his life was his adopted grandson Tony, whom Gary adored deeply. Together, they explored adventures, from visits to Boondocks to lively rounds of putt-putt. Gary was a constant pillar of support for Tony, steadfast in encouraging him at football games and cheering him on through life's many journeys.

Through the years, he opened his home to his Hunka sister, Cetan (Pansy) Hawkwing, creating a bond that flourished into a beautiful roommate relationship. Their connection remained strong until Gary's final moments, a testament to the love and respect they held for each other as brother and sister.

His career as a truck driver, primarily covering routes from Denver to Iowa and occasionally Chicago, was not without its challenges, yet Gary approached each day with dedication and an unwavering work ethic. Traveling alongside his best friend Bert, his beloved dog, he found solace in the open roads, treasuring both the journeys and the quiet moments shared with his furry companion.

Gary's love for photography provided a canvas to express his unique perspective of the world around him. He reveled in capturing the serene beauty of nature and the breathtaking colors of sunsets, framing moments that echoed the spirit of his generous heart.

In his final days Gary's takoja's Carlos, Teddy, and Justin, would visit Gary at his bedside and drum and sing ceremonial songs. The drum beat represents the heart beat. And when Gary was transitioning, the drum beat woke something inside him. It was soothing to his spirit and calming. 

He is survived by his loving adopted family, who will forever cherish the time spent with him. Gary joins his beloved parents, Frieda and Edison Lupien and his dear friend Bert, who stood loyally by his side, in eternal rest.

As we remember Gary D. Lupien, we celebrate not just the life he lived, but the profound impact he made on those fortunate enough to know him. His gruff exterior masked an extraordinary heart, one that touched the lives of many, creating ripples of love that will endure long after his passing. Rest in peace, Gary; your legacy of kindness and generosity will forever remain in our hearts.